crazy womanIt’s not shaming of women into silence. She is crazy, petty, vengeful. Things a good woman shouldn’t be. A good woman suffers in quiet dignity. Women are strong fortresses and should stand even when they have cracks on their walls. If a man mistreats you or cheats on you, don’t go telling everyone about it. They’ll only shake their heads at you for being the pitiful creature you are. You should let it go, cry in silence, keep the details to yourself and wait. Wait for God to avenge you. Even if he lied to you that he was busy at work but was sleeping with the woman he swore was just a friend.

What do you mean he’s a dead beat dad? It’s not good and to be honest we don’t condone it. However, how desperate must you be to post on the dead beat Kenya page? Why would you shame him like that? Why would you shame yourself and your child? You should leave him alone. If he doesn’t want to take responsibility of the child, you carry on by yourself. The single mother is a pillar of strength. Bitterness should be far from your heart. Even after you went into labour and you tried to reach him and he was mteja, then went home with your newborn worried over him sure he was dead and found that he had moved out of the house you shared. Wait on God to avenge you.

You helped him grow and supported him when he was broke and now he’s leaving you for a woman your daughter’s age? Be dignified about it. You’re too old to be crying in public. And honestly, you shouldn’t be too greedy and go after such a big chunk of his wealth. He worked hard for it and yes, you supported him but you didn’t exactly do any of the work at the business. You did? Ok, take your bit but don’t ask for what isn’t yours. You should concentrate on your children and go quietly into retirement. God will avenge you.

Prevention is better than cure. It is therefore important to know what the symptoms of crazy behaviour are so as to avoid them. Crazy behaviour includes but is not limited to: Slashing tyres, bleaching suits and shirts, calling the other woman, beating him or the other woman, telling anyone who will listen what he did to you, sending thugs to beat up the man or the other woman, keying his car, burning his house and killing him or the other woman.

Every woman should be aware of when a crazy episode is coming on. This is because all women are born crazy and must manage this craziness. Do your hands shake when you think about him and what he’s done? Do you fantasize killing him? Do you want to rant at him on social media? Do you think about going to his house or work place and causing a scene? If you have any of these thoughts or similar thoughts, you’re on the verge of a crazy episode and you need to pray or meditate. You will end up in jail. Or even worse, everyone will see just how crazy you are and worst of all, no man will ever want to be with you.

A woman is born crazy. She is not made crazy. And crazy behaviour does not solve anything. What’s done is done. You must accept this and move on. Bury those feelings deep down inside where no one can see them. Smile and pretend to be well even when you’re not. He is a good man and you are a crazy woman and that craziness made him do what he did.

If the other woman mocks you, simply turn the other cheek and even let her spit on your face. Quiet dignity is key here. He hit you? Surely you must have done something to deserve this. He cheated on you? Surely there was something you weren’t doing. Women cannot be reasoned with so he was just showing his dissatisfaction with you through the only language women understand, which is action. Now that you know better, act better. In fact, the good thing about all of this is that you can now use this time you have been slighted to pray and meditate so that you can avoid displeasing the next man in your life.

Don’t say anything, that’s just being dramatic. Don’t do anything, that’s just crazy. Don’t go telling anyone about it, you’re not the first to go through a failed relationship. People have broken up, nahawatusumbui.

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 It's not shaming of women into silence. She is crazy, petty, vengeful. Things a good woman shouldn't be. A good woman suffers in quiet dignity. Women are strong fortresses and should stand even when they have cracks on their walls. If a man mistreats you or cheats on you,...